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In this “Asking Eric” advice column, a reader in a gay relationship writes about a mutual friend named John whom they have invited over four times for swimming and dinner. The reader is frustrated because John has never reciprocated with an invitation to his home, never brings a bottle of wine or a gift of appreciation, never sends a thank-you note, and consistently fails to even bring his own towel.

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Eric responds by advising the reader to have an honest, open conversation with John rather than letting resentment build up. He notes that while John might be taking them for granted or using them, it is also possible that he is simply oblivious and doesn’t realize his behavior is an issue. Eric suggests clearly communicating expectationssuch as asking John to bring his own towel or contribute to the gatheringwhich gives John a chance to adjust his behavior and be a better friend.

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