Asking Eric: Friend post ‘tacky’ Facebook death announcement, tell me about this news in (https://www.denverpost.com/2026/09/28/tacky-facebook-death-announcement-asking-eric/)
28-09-2026
In the “Asking Eric” advice column published on September 28, 2026, the discussion revolves around social media etiquette during bereavement:
The Letter Writer’s Concern: A person wrote in describing a Facebook friend whose husband had recently passed away. The widow posted details about how and when he died, adding a note that anyone wishing to send condolences or items could let her know and she would provide her address. The letter writer felt offering to share her address in this manner was “tacky,” arguing that anyone wanting to send something would simply ask for the address themselves.
Eric’s Advice: Eric disagreed with the letter writer’s view. He explained that making the offer upfront is actually thoughtful communication rather than tacky behavior. It removes awkward barriers for acquaintances who might want to reach out but worry about bothering a grieving spouse or feel embarrassed about not having their address already. Eric emphasized that it is entirely normal to acknowledge that people want to offer support, and anyone grieving a loss should feel free to ask for and accept support from friends, loved ones, or even casual social media connections without being judged.
Additional Topics in the Column:
A 74-year-old grandmother feeling alienated by her daughter-in-law during costly visits to see her grandchildren. Eric recommended having an honest conversation with her son to work together on visits that meet everyone’s emotional and financial needs.
A reader asking how to handle a friend who is still talking constantly about a divorce from two years ago. Eric noted that everyone processes grief on their own timeline, but suggested gently offering to change the topic to more positive matters or encouraging therapy.